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New deviance? (through police glasses from the sects)

Motto: "They the slaves of the 20. century..."

I would like to declare that the sect is an expression in my message before everything not with a pejorative sense. I use it because they are the little religious communities appearing newly in this manner in the common expression according to my judgement mapped. I declare that he is not a word defines you are negative positive content, but the quality of the phenomenon behind it. The policeman is in a special situation in all cases when he is a some kind of new phenomenon, that relatively much concern a man, aims at a surface. A detective authority follows from his nature, that the citizen turns to him, the fact classified by it as dangerous one, a circumstance asks for his exploration. May get into the possession of informations that do not require a police intervention though on the ferry of this - onto equal one or altogether - but the people affect a certain circle of his in a some kind of form.  I feel it as one belonging to this category the so-called sect phenomenon.

The attendant of the changes a change comes about in our society more new phenomena like that, deviance pushed its way for himself, at which the youthful age group turned into one affected really. I do not wish to go into detail about the increase of the juveniles' criminality now because of the actual topic, onto the uninhibited drastic expressing himself in their single actions, onto arrogance or onto the expansion of their outstanding endangerment. I have to mention that the age is an important factor like that rather with a shock, that from many viewpoints chooses we. Irrefutable fact, that the unsettled youngster may become the victim of guilty acts significant easily, than for example that adult, who his practical experience, his knowledge, his physical conditions better protect.

The claim for the search of the mysticism is in the one growing up according to my sight in the society, he is the affection for the so-called occult science. The faith turned into a serious feat. Books, radio and television the multitude of programs, public peoples' multitude writes, he talks about the invincible role of the faith. The magics, the magics, the fantasizing his earnestness, all the commitment for the faith they intend to strengthen.

It indicated himself increasingly well in this constellation and was left over a young person starts searching here. To the world of an emotion and a thought all this age function a neighbourhood is at a standstill, believes it in connection with the faith identity, finds companions much easily.

The different little religious communities started appearing on the front of the ninetyfold years under moments beside the historical big churches. To the police organs 1992 two the first parental searches arrived in his quarter sect in a case. More sect like that got into our scope in connection with the announcements, that based on his single tickets penological you deserve attention lateral. E communities' members wish to live considering themselves a God's child in that manner, the happiness is being looked for in that manner, a god marked it in their interpretation. From young girls and from boys there is a word, the ages of who 15-25 years are between it can be done. Living on the country's different dots is rented according to the informations standing for the provision, houses are bought in which a closed community is developed. On their single settlements commune implement a system is constituted, their closeness is emphasized with this. The best example was making preparations for this in the cottage constituting the "Dunaföldvár sect's", which is one of the driving member, property and developed an infrastructure which is necessary to his own function. They turn a deaf ear to the informations arriving from the external world, they do not give neither newspaper, neither to read a book to the congregation's members. Through their press watchers but they obtain information published on all that, which affects their community. More young persons like that joined the sect marked before with two-three years, the parents of who - saving their children in his interest - you ask for police help. The parents from each other independent, they gave an account of it unanimous, that in their children's conduct, in his behaviour, a considerable negative change was experienced in his health conditions and the reason of this to the sect truth knitting shop one it was marked. The announcers' children, the 18 one celebrated their birthday already in his bulk, they went to a higher school, or they worked. Their contact developed with the sect but interrupted their school studies, you are study debased their result significant, or they gave up their earlier occupation. Their physical stamina weakened, their health conditions decayed. For the family, they turned their back on the direct environment, all of their attention to the sect truth knitting shop filled it in.

Getting into the given sect primary viewpoint the fast alteration of his selected behaviour. The new sibling is considered this under constant supervision in his interest, they keep an eye on it, that let him not be left to himself for a moment quasi. This situation the new member caring affection goes through it, for which one takes shape in him very soon on his row to the sect truth unconditional knitting shop. The full self-revelation constitutes one of the important sections of this first stepped strong connection, he is the detailed presentation of his so far life and his environment. Has to deny his past inside very short time, has to wake up to him, edge, his environment showed off for it, not one according to a god's will, all that was a sinner and an evil life. Proclaims his will concerning future quasi with this, does not want there and to live in that manner long, till then.

His past refusal exposed one, makes it bereft one, feels it in that manner for his previous acts to feel ashamed, he has to suffer. From this his siblings, together with who he is thinking, exist staining simply, together with who he may develop it onto the questions arriving from outside answer to be given.

The change of their pattern of life considerable, since early position, dawn awakening, daily repeated monotonous meditation, prayer changes each other. Strictly eliminates culinary customs, in combination, partnerships defined in a quantity.

The Dunaföldvár's, a depot, which means it, is at their disposal on more of the country's settlements already, that their staff numbers swell, material ones are not been short of. The sect's members enrich the congregation's property bringing their property with themselves.

The exceptional quickly developed psychic and material dependence, the demolished personality makes it difficult, or makes the reversal dead-end one, that is stepping out of the sect. To all this is accompanied an threatening his feeling, his winter with a fear which the leaders ensure, that let it take shape soon in an individual. I would like to stress that the above statements did not appear as the part of a scientific research, but arrived to us from announcements in the sect issue, police checks were made up of his experiences. Very many parents fought putting everything onto a sheet and today fights possibly, that guarded, let him retrieve his beloved child, let him save it.

The first announcements arrived on 1992 of his summers from country to the police. Inside short time from the country's settlements differing geographical visited parents, who performed it equivalent with their child according to a word quasi bygones. In view of the fact that the announcements did not imply facts indicating the strong suspicion of a crime, but they shed light on a so new phenomenon, that clarification, or requires a solution, we organized a vocational forum. It together onto thinking judge, prosecutor, psychologist, psychiatrist, educator, lawyer catholic and reformed clergyman, being due to some concerned parents called.

The result of the deliberation primary in it can be summed up that the phenomenon got to a presentation in a narrow vocational circle. The representatives of areas received knowledge on all that, who in the course of their work in the additional cognition, a part which is active in helping may be undertaken. Immediate practical result we may have noted that he is the invited psychiatrist - dr. Júlia Gádoros - it undertook it interested I bear young for him the deduction of family therapy occupations.

The one for the phenomenon grew following the event interest with a wider circle, it electronic and written press increasingly often dealt the sect with a phenomenon. Studies were made, the compiling of the international experiences sped. Members of parliament took it on, that the issue which is connected to the phenomenon is revealed to the parliament. Expanded continuous they his circle, who from the sect phenomenon they managed informations, who you are the sect in their work in the information of their environmental contacts question it was kept on an agenda.

The successful child of some parents medical, under a psychiatric examination to pull over, but onto a treatment, you are later a row got to control hardly because of the child's seclusion. Figured in the medical opinion vain, that at the examined person "...introvertalism, immature personality tickets, being inclined to autism, dismissive manifestations the more capital symptoms..." or, that "...emotional intense indifference, emotional and behavioural disturbances, lying hidden developing pschoticus the opportunity of a state comes up..." and lastly, that "...regular psychiatric control necessary..." we know it without the patient's cooperation well, it is not possible to heal it.

Fast result in the solution of the question, because of the character of the case from a first minute was not expected starting. The families going through the phenomenon the heavy a row got to helping in a some kind of kind hardly. Did not become clearer since the today's day that he is the activity of the cultic communities affected in the announcements you are supporting requires restrictive measures. The embittered parents they reached the stage of the supreme fora with their announcements, this did not bring it but for them the desired help. The onto themselves parents concerned with the sect because of the feeling of withers conditions started independent organisations, a community was created, where the new informations may have been sent on continuous and where quasi could screen. Behaviours were developed on their regular gatherings, the treatment of each other's problem was taken on.

Increasingly less information got from them towards the police, since it was experienced, that their problems the authority - because of the borders of his driving licences - cannot solve it.
The right declares his underage interests, the family defines his institution's importance, but to help with his truth on the problem, to edit, to rear, to shield, to give an advice it feeling, creator the man being worried about the youth capable. Naturally is the legal framework, but the of many years experience above this the clairvoyant raises it, worried, to do wanting parent, educator, child welfare one, doctor. Not from the disdain of the right, from his evasion there is a word, but from keeping the human values alive, from the fact of the interdependence, from the importance of the cooperation and from the primateship of the prevention.

On this ars poetic delegating with many parents, with a psychiatrist, with a psychologist, with an educator and in sect living person, you are with a young person getting out from there spoken. Was audible often, that it is necessary to look for the root of the problem between the family problems in a big part. Sure true, but this only fraction. Is not not problematic family and is not not problematic young person. The age changes diverse, a unexpected situation is produced, tickets differing periodically are strengthened, or weaken and the individual and his environment go through the multitude of periods changing by the time the personality becomes stable somewhat. The families' diversity gives the different judgement of these periods according to my experiences. Debates, contrary opinions, rigour, uncontrolled, coddling, on what-all of them gave problems in a situation, danger situations may be created in a narrow community and the young person may be induced toward escape. It is not possible to take notice of this with a nod, it is necessary to strive for the treatment to the utmost, onto the solution. The success of the fundamental human rights, its insurance without dams exceptional important, but the excessive liberalization may lead to unpredictable consequences. According to the right his underage religious affiliation the achievement of his legal age you are the parent lawful representative authorised to direct. The independent act determination in this case according to my feeling necessary and justified. It is not possible to keep quiet about the fact that there are endangering families really where the youngster's healthy development is limited sincere naturally. It is necessary to intervene here, it is necessary to cheer it up if it is possible to help in it, if not, it is necessary to sanction it.

The independent act determination in this case according to my feeling necessary and justified. It is not possible to keep quiet about the fact that there are endangering families really where the youngster's healthy development is limited sincere naturally. It is necessary to intervene here, it is necessary to cheer it up if it is possible to help in it, if not, it is necessary to sanction it. Our work came to light on his row because of this just, from a police viewpoint informations which cannot be used mutual we may crush it, but to send on necessary they for him who who may utilize it in the course of their child protection work may learn from it.

Lastly - not hurting the personality rights - I pick details out from some parental letters, that to the cognition of the sect phenomenon let him be allowed to serve as an additional additive.

An aphorism is left in connection with the phenomenon circle into my reason which I borrow from Ágnes Losonczi and that sounds in this manner:

"Not the miracle that we get sick but, that we heal, how we live"

Details from letters written by sectarian children's parents:

An the parents of 19 year girls: "...Our daughter declared that are me and my husband we are not his parents, he a God's child, may say thank you for his life and we may not interfere in his life altogether, a God may dictate to him simply..."

An the parents of 22 year boys: "...We can make something possibly in more. Fearing, that it is not possible to bring them back already into the neat life, harm like that was made in them. It is not possible to write down what the family passed through because of this and our son responds to nothing altogether. I feel it in that manner sometimes and his siblings, that go mad..."

An the parents of 24 year girls: "...His health conditions regressed to so much, how it is not possible to understand it what he speaks. Does not see the doctor because of that because he is afraid that it is invested and they may not be then always together. I am afraid when I see his bankruptcy meet him because my heart is cut off..."

An the parents of 20 year girls: "...Our girl was fired from his workplace because of that - Student Centre -, because he was not willing to do certain tasks with referring to religious reasons. For example The Smurfs title a cartoon did not contribute to screening him because of that, a character dared according to his judgement in the film a magician personifies the evil and he was not willing for this onto his publicity..."

An the parents of 25 year boys: "...My son liked us. Neat, with a sober life, a learning child was good. They are not allowed to write their title yet. I am afraid that somebody takes the congregation's members onto foreign countries. Like that as if not too would be him..."

An the parents of 23 year girls: "...Terrible, that clever, we lose our healthy child in this manner. I am on eight days of sick pay because of this. His father was operated on and I asked it to visit it very much, but yet onto an answer praised. I can tolerate this hardly unfortunately..."

An the parents of 20 year girls: "...Was like that already, as if it would have been exchanged totally. I was not top notch and I was not preparing himself for the fact that a congregation like this exists, my child fell into a trap in this manner. I took it to reason, that terrible remorse is nourished into the child. Their real sober thinking is disturbed totally. Into the sect before his step reliable, diligent, a learning child was good..."

An the parents of 21 year boys: "...A sect, the one that tears away the child from his family indicates the human bad actions from the beginning already. It would not be possible to allow one like this today, since many families and a child's life run aground, if it is not possible to do it in time. I do not know it, is from this way out, because their personality changed very much and their feelings the rest of the men..."

An the parents of 20 year boys: "...I would not have believed in the fact that strength, which would be able to tear away our son from his family, may be so influencing in my dream. Our contact was unobjectionable, obedient and a student was excellent. We were shocked when more children on duty came home after a pause, that how much changed. In strange dresses, with unslept eyes, with considerable loss of weight. Related that he was possessed by the Holy Spirit, he secreted. Lived for this guilty and what. His devoted affection turned into hatred..."

An the parents of 22 year boys: "...What the sect did for the family with our son's conversion reaches up a conscious family destroyer with an activity, onto which are not ashamed to make use of the Bible..."

An the parents of 26 year boys: "...Our son a good child was blessed, a clergyman would have been good at him, but it did not succeed. I was informed that we will lose our son forever recently. This was said according to a word, I believed it my heart is broken. Our children suffer there, we parents we suffer here idle. Let us save our children, yet not being late..."

An the parents of 19 year girls: "...His behaviour from the first moment of getting into the sect changed. Like that, you are who is sleepy steady who does not hear our speech. His eye oddly troubled waters, we ask him anything, lowers his head simply and breaks into a smile. If we would not join the discussion about it, only into himself would sit around closing up the ranks. Read early, listened to music, TV was watching, today sentences all this. Are we incapable?..."

An the parents of 22 year boys: "...Fearsome, that the kindly, helpful, with a good ability, young persons living in a loving family the sect picks it out. The outcast, on a margin living person, you are in state upbringing onto ones being brought up they do not have need. They make them stop their studies, they have their workplaces terminated. Our child an programmed, insensitive, will and indecision turned into a puppet. They the slaves of the 20. century..."

dr. László Csendes policeman lieutenant colonel
head of department, National Chief Commissioner of Police ("ORFK") Crime Prevention Class

Source: Crime Prevention